My Journey to Self-Discovery
Two years ago, my life looked completely different. I was newly a single mom, navigating heartbreak, fear, and uncertainty. My world felt upside down—I didn’t just lose a relationship, I lost the picture I thought my life was supposed to look like.
At first, I had no choice but to move back in with my parents, carrying not only my kids but also the weight of shame, grief, and starting over. It felt like rock bottom.
But what I didn’t know then was that this season of loss would become the beginning of something far greater: a journey of self-discovery, strength, and purpose.
Learning to Stand on My Own
Becoming a single mom forced me to dig deep. I had two little ones looking up at me, needing me to show up no matter how heavy life felt. It wasn’t easy, there were nights I cried myself to sleep (sometimes I still do)… and there were mornings I woke up wondering if I could really do this.
Slowly, step by step, I started building us a new life. Today, I can proudly say: I am fully self-sufficient. I provide for my children and myself. I’ve created a career that allows me to support us. I have my own place, a safe home filled with love, laughter, and stability.
The strength I was searching for wasn’t somewhere out there—it was always inside me.
The Weight of Change
One of the most visible parts of my transformation has been my weight loss journey. Over the past couple of years, I’ve lost 127 lbs. That number isn’t just about pounds—it’s about shedding layers of pain, self-doubt, and the version of me that didn’t believe she was capable of more.
Yes, I’ve had ups and downs. I’ve gained back 10–15 lbs at times. But here’s the truth: setbacks don’t erase progress. They teach resilience. Every time I recommit, I’m reminded that my worth isn’t tied to a number—it’s tied to the courage to keep going.
Finding My Purpose
Somewhere along this journey, something shifted. I realized my story wasn’t just about me—it was about inspiring others. That’s why I created Modern Mom + Co: a space for women who, like me, are balancing motherhood with self-growth, healing, and building a life that feels good inside and out.
I’ve discovered that my purpose is to use my experiences—the struggles, the wins, the messy middle—to remind other moms that they’re not alone. We don’t have to be perfect to be powerful.
What I Know Now
Looking back, here’s what I’ve learned:
Rock bottom can be the foundation you rebuild your life on.
Healing takes time, but growth happens in small, consistent steps.
Becoming a single mom isn’t the end of your story—it is just the beginning of your greatest transformation.
You can build a life on your own terms, even when it feels impossible at first.
Final Thoughts
I’m still on this journey, and I think I always will be. But I’ve come to see my challenges not as roadblocks, but as stepping stones.
If you’re a mom walking through change, heartbreak, or uncertainty, I want you to know this: you are stronger than you think, and your story isn’t over. In fact, it may just be beginning to something even better!
So thank you for being here with me, and sharing this journey. Together, we’re rewriting what it means to be a modern mom—one step, one choice, one brave day at a time.
